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Upcoming Events: October 2018
October 10: Making Love to a Trans Woman at The Art of Loving Do you have a trans girlfriend? Do you have a crush on a trans woman?...
Forced Fem Belongs to Trans Women
Image Description: Bright pink glossy lips peek out through a hole in baby pink paper. Credit: Ian Dooley/Unsplash I recently received...
What's going on in my life
Hello my beautifuls I'm planning a reddit AMA on Saturday at 1pm Vancouver Time to talk about my recent orchiectomy. I'm also happy to...
The Trouble With "One True Way."
It seems it's common for women tops to start as bottoms, and I guess that's sort of understandable. Women in the kink community are often...
Getting started with the self proclaimed, "true submissive."
A Dom on reddit recently shared a situation they were anxious about. They had a play partner who had a fetish for paying tribute (based...
Somebody asked me, "What is your favorite memory of your sub?"
This was my response The time I ordered a meatball with pickles and mayonnaise because I was craving a hamburger. Kidding! (not about the...
Centering Trans Women's Lived Experience as Sex Surrogacy Providers
She walks into my dungeon. The lights are on high and the walls, traditionally adorned with toys and mirrors, are covered with curtains....
Why do Dommes expect tribute?
So, you've accepted you're naturally a submissive, and you've finally made the leap onto fetlife. It doesn't matter if you're a man, a...
Your descent into forced womanhood: how it's going to happen.
You see my ads on an advertising board while looking for fun on the weekend. "Sissy training, not my thing," you say, but my blue eyes...
Hunting your unicorn
When I started branching out as a sex positive activist, one of the first workshops I took was on polyamory. I didn't know at the time,...
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